Growing your kids is a lot like growing plants. Here are a few quick tips
1. There are infinite varieties -- no cookie-cutter principles. Study your child.
2. They mature (bear fruit) at different times. Be patient
3. The best way to "water" is to let them soak up character in a home full of grace and truth
4. They grow best together. Crowd them with people.
5. Provide structure (support) that is not rigid, but primarily with good core values
6. Prune activities so they can grow in the areas that matter most
7,. Avoid seeing them as your trophies. That leads to all kinds of problems. Let them develop as God's trophies in an atmosphere of unconditional love.
8. Enjoy the journey. Parenting is TOUGH and AMAZING.
9. God doesnt give us kids so we will raise them, so much as so God can finish raising US.
It's a LOT like great gardening, actually!
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Episode 170: Bible Questions: What does the Bible say about parenting?